Twenty years

26 June 2008

Twenty years ago today, I met Nicola Griffith. Since then, we have drunk a hundred thousand beers, a million cups of tea, never run out of conversation, made excellent friends, had excellent adventures. Twenty years of helping each other do her best work, live her best life, be her best self. Today we celebrate.

Nicola & Kelley 2007
Nicola & Kelley 2007

Honey, this one’s for you: Crystal - Fleetwood Mac

Do you always trust your first initial feeling?
Special knowledge holds true, bears believing.
 
I turned around
And the water was closing all around like a glove.
Like the love that had finally finally found me.
Then I knew.
And the crystalline knowledge of you
Drove me through the mountain.
Through the crystal-like clear water fountain.
Drove me like a magnet
To the sea.
 
How the faces of love have changed,
Turning the pages.
And I have changed
Oh, but you, you remain ageless.
 
I turned around
And the water was closing all around like a glove.
Like the love that had finally finally found me.
Then I knew
In the crystalline knowledge of you.
Drove me through the mountain.
Through the crystal-like clear water fountain.
Drove me like a magnet
To the sea.
 
“Crystal” - written by Stevie Nicks, performed by Fleetwood Mac

Comments

11 Responses to “Twenty years”

  1. jan august on June 26th, 2008 9:37 am

    Congratulations and all the best for you, Kelley, for Nicola, for love.

    20 years? Hmmm….y’think it might work out? ;)

    j.a.

  2. Jennifer on June 26th, 2008 11:12 am

    I marvel at what a rare and brilliant example of true love personified those twenty years are.

    Great song.

    Happy, happy celebrating!

  3. Sly on June 26th, 2008 12:00 pm

    raising my glass for a toast to your love celebrating your happiness congratulations and many more.

  4. karina on June 26th, 2008 2:58 pm

    Congrats! It’s so inspiring to know couples like you are around. And thanks for your writing. I really enjoyed Dangerous Space, especially “Strings” (which I read after a Lisa Gerrard concert that raised goosebumps and tears). Here’s to the many more anniversaries and stories to come, and for the devotion and discipline that’s made them possible. Cheers.

  5. drlene on June 26th, 2008 8:33 pm

    Congratulations! Even after all this time, you’re still one of the happiest couples I’ve ever seen. You are truly an inspiration. xo

  6. Andi M on June 26th, 2008 9:36 pm

    Congrats! And may you have 20 more and 20 after that and another 20 and…well, many, many more!

  7. Kelley on June 26th, 2008 9:57 pm

    Thank you all so much for your good wishes. We’ve had a most excellent day. Although most days with Nicola are excellent (yeah, I love her, does it show?) :)

  8. paola on June 27th, 2008 5:40 am

    Congratulations! :-)

    You make me always smile, …thank you

  9. Kelley on June 27th, 2008 6:53 am

    Grazie, Paola :)

  10. hnu on June 29th, 2008 3:14 pm

    was out of town, so i missed the moment, but it’s better late than never, so…
    CONGRATULATIONS!!!
    we are happy for you and wish you that all you ever wished for each other and for you both may come true!
    horia and lucia

  11. Kelley on June 30th, 2008 8:47 am

    Mult’umesc foarte mult, Horia, and no worries about missing anything… we tend think that confining celebrations to some arbitrary twenty-four hour period is, well, a bit limiting (grin). Good wishes are always welcome!

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